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[annathyst]

To clear up any confusion:

There was a girl I liked
It turned out he liked her too.
He asked her first. He won, I lost.
Grok?

Comments

bleh.

[goninzo.livejournal.com]

sorry man. used to happen to me all the time.

but, to give you hope, somewhere around my 25th birthday, things started going the other way. so just be patient. trust me. `8r) it gets better!

[dormando.livejournal.com]

grok.

[notemily.livejournal.com]

I grok. Ouch. *hug*

[pyrop.livejournal.com]

yeah, that whole time thing is a pain in the ass. (not sarcasm)

[kvance.livejournal.com]

D'oh! :(

[ldy.livejournal.com]

Ach. Grok.

*hugs*

[ex-md744.livejournal.com]

I grokked, It's still a very unhealthy way to look at it. You should find an alternate mindset.

[endril.livejournal.com]

Is a girl really a prize to be won?

[duinlas.livejournal.com]

only if you hit her with a ball. (mitmowp)

[byagghametta.livejournal.com]

*nodnod* I agree...this is unhealthy. I'm sorry you didn't get the girl, but this reads as if she was little more than an object to be had by whoever got there first. Well, that and a mite obsessive.

girls arent objects

[faiteil.livejournal.com]

i agree that girls are not some sort of game. They are not objects and frankly they are much smarter and sensible then guys are. The girl decides what they want, becuase they know best

Re: girls arent objects

[duinlas.livejournal.com]

that's a pretty big blanket statement. What, praytell, makes girls smarter and more sensible than guys?

Re: girls arent objects

[faiteil.livejournal.com]

well i guess that is sort of a blanket statement, becuase there are of course exceptions to every rule. But ill explain what i mean. In my life, i've dealt with both sexes "issues", because I am the type of person that unwillingly gets involved with peoples problems. I have found in these situations girls seem to understand and fix the situation with much more sensibility and ease. They also tend to find the brighter side of things quiker then guys do. I am a guy so i know from experience that this can be true. I see it all the time. Also i have the belief that girls are just plain better then guys in general. That is just my opinion, because of what I've learned going through my life. Guys have some instinct for dominance, where Females have a nurturing instinct. Do you disagree entirley?

Re: girls arent objects

[duinlas.livejournal.com]

I disagree partially. It certainly is the case some of the time, but whether or not most of the time I'm not sure.